For the past 27 months I had been harboring the dread that
anytime now I would get a call from my brother, Mike, whose dog, Badger, a
17-year-old Yorkie who had been on his last legs for some time. Like most pet
owners, my brother and his wife Beryl, had a strong bond with Badger. He was,
in many respects, my brother’s only child.
And in truth Badger was a neat little pooch. Where Mike
went, Badger wasn’t far behind. But alas, last week, in typical 21st
century tech-notification manner I received his short, cryptic text message:
rip Badger. Today that’s about all anyone needs to see to realize another life
has passed. I re-texted my condolences and spent a few minutes recounting some
of the incidents involving Badger, who in his heyday was a cool little guy.
I remember first meeting him, a tiny tea-cup of a pup. But
he grew up to be stocky, and a typical A-personality type, strangely a lot like
my brother. It’s said that humans tend to look like their dogs, but Badger and Mike
tended to look like each other and act like each other. I don’t mean to say my
brother had shaggy hair and pointed ears, but his demeanor was very much like
that of Badger’s. Badger even developed a sort of sarcastic growl when things
weren’t going quite how he wanted them to, just like Mike does.
Travelling with Badger in the car was a trip. He wasn’t
content to sit in the back seat, or in the passenger’s lap. For Badger the only
seat worth sitting in was the one along the back of the car seat directly
behind my brother’s head. He was a living, breathing head rest. I suppose if we
got caught up in the fear-driven world’s perspective some would say that the
practice was dangerous for both my brother and Badger. But in our lives,
meaning Breidenbach, we don’t often get caught up with what’s popular or what
the masses seem to think is appropriate. Over the years we have found the
masses are often wrong.
So we would ignore those who would want us to keep our pet
in a crate or a car seat or some other method of locking them down. Dogs fit a
certain niche’ in our family, and the list of “famous” hounds of the
Breidenbachs is long. My earliest recollection is Star, a beagle we had who had
to be put down due to distemper. But there are many others: Snuffy, Happy, Isis (pronounced Is Is by those
who really knew her), Cinder (and Ella after my mother), and specifically in my
house: Teddy, Sadie, Hobbes, Grizz, and
now Snuggs, the Great Dane and by far the biggest dog.
Looking back at Badger, there are so many memories. Perhaps
the first time I realized Badger was a special dog was when I learned about his
favorite stuffed toy, Red Rex. Red Rex was a medium-sized red T-Rex stuffed toy.
It was Badger’s favorite toy for years, until he had finally wore out the
critter. Badger would track down Red Rex if you threw it, no matter where it
landed. In another room, he would get it; under the bed, no challenge for
Badger; into the pool…well that actually started another adventure that would
become, for me, Badger’s defining moments.
We found out during that time that Badger was extremely fond
of the pool. It took a matter of seconds for my brother to get the idea that a
mechanical swimming shark might be fun to put in the pool with Badger. That’s
how we learned that dogs can actually swim underwater. Badger would dive down
to get the shark, eyes and mouth wide open as he closed in on the tail. In no
time at all, Mike had to get a new shark then another and another and another.
Not only will we have that in our memories, but we even have pictures. Mike
would get one of those disposable underwater cameras and shoot away. He didn’t
need a lot of good pictures from each roll of film, just the one or two perfect
ones with Badger in hot pursuit of Jaws.
About two years ago, it became apparent that Badger was on
his way out. Mike and Beryl nearly took the step to have him put down when
their vet offered another solution. The solution was to give Badger a monthly
shot that would keep him rolling for another four weeks. Since they no longer
had the pool, Badger learned to like fishing. The stream behind Mike’s house in
Wilson, NC, provided plenty of action. Mike would catch a small sunfish, bring
it up on the stream bank, and Badger would go bonkers over the fish flopping
around before it worked its way back into the water.
That went on for another 26 months, but this past month Mike
said he had noticed a big change for the worse with Badger. He didn’t have the
same zest, he had slowed down some, and his trips to go fishing were less and very
short. After his normal monthly trip to the vet for his “shot” the physical
ailments increased. A few days later he took his long-time pal in and had him,
as my sister put it, sent to go fishing at the Rainbow Bridge. It’s really hard
to say goodbye to our pets; so I guess the text message put it best: RIP
Badger.